Thursday, September 22, 2022

Olympic Peninsula 2022

It was Tom’s dream and idea that we stay at Lake Quinault Lodge on the Olympic Peninsula for a few days. I did not care where in the peninsula we went. I just knew it would be beautiful. Mary and Dave went with us.

It was Tom’s luck that the day we set out to go to Lake Quinault, his high school friend Liz organized a get-together at her home. Her house is in a beautiful setting with tall evergreens bordering the backyard. She and her husband had transformed the front and back yards into gardens that I imagined would be featured in garden magazines. There were nine of us, sitting in Liz’ backyard, chatting about summer vacations, RVs, old times, this and that – while munching on delicious breads and muffins and fresh fruit and coffee and tea. I regret not taking any pictures of Liz, Mary, Becky, and Tom, the four old high school friends.

We had to say goodbye to Liz and the rest early because we had several hours to drive to that day’s destination. Mary had packed food for lunch and snacks for the next few days. We stopped at Vance Creek Park in Elma for lunch. It turned out to be a nice park on the water, which we did not know before stopping. A boy came up to our picnic table and asked what we were doing. Tom replied that we were having lunch. He walked away. I was perplexed. I’d be more suspicious and scared if he wasn’t all alone. Tom and I both thought of our niece who is autistic, and wondered if the boy suffered from some similar condition.

We got to Lake Quinault around 3pm. This is “a wilderness gateway to alpine meadows, jeweled lakes and ice-carved peaks.” We checked in, snacked some, settled in, then took a walk along the Quinault Lake Shore Trail. I marveled at being transported in a short time frame from the hot city of Austin to the cool rain forest, big ferns, tree branches hanging with moss, and moist dark soil. It was magic. At one point the trail got treacherous for Dave because a section of it was washed out. What was left didn’t make for smooth and even footing. One misstep and one would fall down the steep slope toward the lake. We were all willing to turn around, except for Dave. Mary wasn’t too happy that he wanted to continue on by sitting down and scooting himself over this section. Tom anchored himself over the lake-side part. If Dave fell, either Tom would be strong enough to catch Dave or the two of them would fall down the slope. Mary threatened to leave the group because that was “stupid.” But Dave successfully made it through the section and Mary relented. She stayed with us. We wanted to make it to the Rain Forest Trailhead past the camping area and we did. At the camping area, Mary and Tom went back to the lodge to get the car while Dave rested and I stayed with him. The idea was for us to continue after the rest and meet Mary and Tom at the trailhead. Dave shook his head as Tom and Mary skipped away while singing some song from a musical. Dave told me he didn’t like musicals.

Dave and I were a bit confused about how to get to our meeting place with Mary and Tom. We came to the restroom and pay station for the camping area. While we were trying to figure out our route, Dave struck up a conversation with a camper. I went on ahead to check out where we were on the map. Dave was engrossed in the conversation and didn’t follow me. I returned and finally was able to get him to say goodbye to his newfound friend. However, the map was confusing. We couldn’t find the bridge on the map to connect us to the South Shore Drive, the road Mary and Tom would have to drive on. We finally took a trail, without knowing if it was the right trail, hoping it would lead us to where we wanted to go. It was the right trail after all, but it was longer and harder than we expected. We finally saw the bridge we were looking for. I took pictures of the beautiful water. We still had a way to go to get to the trailhead and the handicap accessible trail. We’d have to get to the road first. On the map, it looks like the trail would intersect the road. In reality, the road is something like 100 feet above the trail. We had to keep going and the going was rough. At one point, we had to turn and go uphill. There was a step that is twice as high as a regular staircase step. We either had to take that or walk on a narrow steep uphill with nothing to hold on to. Again Dave got down to scoot uphill. I was behind him and if he stumbled, we would both fall. Miraculously we made it. It was a moment of great joy when I saw Tom coming towards us. Mary and Tom had driven back to where they left us to look for us and Mary was worried sick. We got to where we were supposed to meet. The expected handicap accessible trail never materialized. We decided to get in the car to go back to the lodge after checking out the 500-year-old massive Douglas Fir featured on this trail. We did not walk the entire Rain Forest Trail as we had planned.

For dinner, we sat on the tiny patio of our room and munched on cheese, crackers, fruits, and vegetables that Mary had packed. We opened a bottle of Portuguese red wine. Tom was sad that the big spruce tree partially blocked our view of the lake. He had imagined otherwise. It was pleasant nevertheless. Mary and I walked back to the registration desk to sign up for a boat tour in the morning.

Our boat tour started at 9am the next morning. Our guide was Charlie. He has been a guide since the year 2009. Today he had the four of us and another couple from Washington DC as guests. The first thing he did after we boarded was to turn off the engine and let us sit and soak in the tranquility of the morning lake with the mists still lingering on the lake surface. Then he took us around the lake and told us the history of Quinault Lodge, the salmon hatchery system, interesting facts about forests, stories and houses of local celebrities,… He took us to his favorite cove where the salmon hatchery is located. The salmon hatchery system is run by the Quinault Indian Nation, in cooperation with the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service. He told us about Fawn Sharp, former president of the Quinault Indian Nation for four consecutive terms. We learned about the differences between the National Park and National Forest, and differences of a mature forest and a forest where logging had taken place. I am not one who is good at trivia, but I was able to provide the name of John Muir when Charlie asked about the person who met with President Theodore Roosevelt and was instrumental in preserving lands in the form of national parks for future generations to enjoy. We learned about Robert Ingersoll, whose name is immortalized in Colonel Bob Wilderness. Charlie shared the booklet of the address at the funeral of Walt Whitman by Robert Ingersoll. He said he found the one out of 1,000 copies in print on Ebay. We learned about an elk kept as a pet by the people who lived here before. We later did find the picture of three girls on an elk at the lodge. Charlie said he acted as though it was his first time as a guide, and he did. He jumped up and took pictures with his phone many times. We enjoyed hearing him narrate. I earned the nickname Permagrin from him because I kept a smile on my face. That reminded me of my mother seeing bison at Yellowstone. She had a permanent smile on her face then.

After the boat tour, we munched on things we had for lunch and finished up the bottle of wine from the night before. We had the gazebo on the lawn to ourselves. I sat where the sun was shining and it was fabulous.

After lunch, we took a three-hour scenic loop drive around the lake. We were happy to see Bunch Falls, after missing seeing Merriman Falls. After we crossed the bridge and were on the way back on the North side of the lake, Mary and I saw a little bear running in the valley below. We did not see the mother bear and assumed the little bear was running to its mother. We drove on the gravel road for quite a while before we got on the paved road. We stopped at the site of Kestner Homestead, the home of a pioneer family in the early 1900’s. Tom and I took the Kestner Homestead Trail to the Ranger Station while Mary drove the car there with Dave. From the Ranger Station, the four of us took the Maple Glade Rain Forest Trail where we saw moss overhanging large maple trees. On the way back, we tried to find the Quinault Big Cedar Trail, hoping to see one of the world’s largest Western red cedars, and couldn’t find it. We later learned that the trail no longer exists because the big cedar tree was struck by lightning and is no longer there. The trail had been overgrown.

Back to our lodge, we visited the Quinault museum across the lodge before heading to the Salmon House Restaurant to order salmon dinners to go. While waiting for the food, we took a walk to see the largest Sitka spruce tree.

We brought the salmon dinners back to the lodge and ate at a picnic table on the lawn. Dinners were delicious. Mary remarked that we hardly talked to each other while gulping down the food because we were so hungry. We opened our second bottle of wine, a Trader’s Joe red blend. After dinner, we checked out the sauna in the lodge and and various black and white photos hung on the hallways, as suggested by Charlie, where we found the picture of three girls on an elk and trucks with only one huge log on them.

On the second morning, I got up early and walked down the beach to be with Tom. I wanted to catch the sky when it was still orange. I caught it at the last minute. It didn’t stay that way for long.

We left Quinault Lodge around 8:20am and drove north along the west coast of the peninsula. We stopped at Kalaloch’s Beaches 1 and 4 where we could still see gentle rays from the morning sun. Tom wanted to stop at Ruby Beach but it was closed. We went on to Rialto Beach where we stayed for a while. It is where the Quileute Indian Reservation is. This beach has lots of driftwood which block the view and the entry points to the beach. It took us a while to find a clear path to the beach. Dave and I sat at a driftwood log while Tom and Mary took a walk on the beach.

We continued on Route 101 and stopped at Lake Crescent for old-time’s sake for both Mary and Tom. Tom went into the lake at the urging of Mary. He also went into the lodge and talked to the person at the desk, as he did the last time I was here with him. I had him pose at an old phone booth, pretending to talk to someone on the phone. We went to a room upstairs and looked out. He exclaimed that the trees had grown much bigger since the time he worked here, and the view to the lake was also partially blocked.

Mary and I were talking about food and we both had a hankering for Dungeness crab, after Dungeness Bay was mentioned. We wanted to go to Three Crabs in Port Angeles but it had been closed for several years. We walked along the water and saw Mt. Baker. The recommended Kokopelli Grill was closed when we arrived. We decided to go up Hurricane Ridge and come back later for dinner. Hurricane Ridge didn’t have the snow-covered mountain view and the sun was harsh, so it didn’t have the awe factor as the first time I saw it. But I had fun walking the Cirque Rim Trail with Tom. We each got a message from T-Mobile on our cell phones, welcoming us to Canada! Someone on AT&T network overheard our conversation and said she got the same message from AT&T. We did see the Strait of Juan de Fuca from up there, over a mile up in elevation. We were told that at night, one can see the lights of Victoria, 34 miles across the strait. We also saw a ski slope with chair lifts and no snow.

When we got back to Port Angeles, we checked in at the Red Inn Hotel and ate at Downriggers on the Water, another recommended place. Mary and I had our Dungeness crab in our crab Louie salads. I also ordered a bowl of clam chowder. It was a big salad. Tom helped me finish it.

The next morning, we spent four hours exploring Port Townsend, taking an auto and walking tour of the historic homes and buildings, following the route suggested on a map obtained from the Visitor Center. While on the tour, I saw a poster from the Rotary Club of Port Townsend, advertising free books for children ages birth to five from the Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library. I had read about this charity donation in Reader’s Digest before, and this was the first time I saw a poster about it. I am so impressed with Dolly Parton. She gives out books to any child every month for the first five years of their lives!

At the end of our tour, in searching for a restroom, we discovered a fabulous park called Chetzemoka, which made me fall in love with this town. We met someone who said she often officiates weddings here. She said this is a hidden gem of Port Townsend. There is a cottage garden next to a cottage and a poem garden with plaques of poems on the path. There is a large gazebo overlooking the water. There is a fun glider and several picnic tables. We saw a yoga class going on in a grassy area. We dreamed of having a family reunion in this beautiful park.

Onward. We took the ferry from Kingston back to Edmonds. The sky was clear enough to us to see both Mount Rainier and Mount Baker, which was not a common occurrence.

Thus ended our short trip to the Olympic Peninsula. I took the National Park brochure home with me. I show the map to my son-in-law and tell him that he will have to hike to Blue Glacier one day.

Thursday, August 25, 2022

Collage 61

Uncles and Aunts and Friends
How wonderful a summer you helped create
When we saw each other again
In between our two school years
Together we took a stroll
Down the cliffs of La Jolla Cove
Watching seals and sea lions laze in the sun
Looking at colorful trinkets on the stands
We were not afraid to go into the water
At the beaches of the Pacific Ocean
We had fun playing with the seaweed
And chasing the pigeons all around
We took walks in the evenings
When the sun was gone and the air had cooled down
We drank the sweet juice of the sugar cane
And tasted the bánh cam Mama bought
We had the most sumptuous dumplings
At Din Tai Fung the well-known restaurant
Mama’s aunt made sure the food kept coming
To satisfy the hungry guests who welcomed each dish
At Stearns Wharf pier we used the telescopes
To look at far-away boats and lands
The sea gulls and pelicans flew overhead
The artists got together and sketched
We lunched French food at a French café
A recommended place far from the touristy crowd
We learned about the Joshua trees
At Joshua Tree National Park
And saw rock formations
One of them looks like a skull
We drove through the beautiful landscape
Treasuring what nature offers us for free
The longest day we spent walking
With many memorable moments
Was when us twelve met at Disneyland
And together we rode the fun and the scary rides
Giggling and screaming through it all
Until our legs were tired
As we sat on Dada’s shoulders
To watch the light show at the end of the day
Our summer break ended with a blast
When Mama’s brother and sister came
To wish her a very happy birthday
One she won’t be likely to forget
At Schlitterbahn water parks we got splashed
And round and round we asked for more
The summer sun kept us from freezing
On the rides where the water was not warm
Now as our summer break is over
We have pictures to help remember our fun
And family and friends to hold and love
In albums and collages you stay
We’ll keep and treasure the memories
Of the summer fun we have with each of you


Sunday, July 24, 2022

Bundle of Nerves

We had been through six 60-minute soccer games with three wins, three ties, and no score against us, to qualify us to the final of the 2022 SoccerFest in Chattanooga. We would be playing against the top team who earned the most points, and against whom we tied 0-0 in an earlier game. Our team went out to an early dinner to celebrate and to allow us time to rest for the fierce battle ahead. I did not order wine, figuring I would have a glass later in the evening. But I was tired and went to bed early, sans wine. I was glad to be able to fall asleep quickly, after rolling out my aching muscles with a tennis ball and did other exercises I thought would help me stay strong and flexible for the game. My right ankle was swollen at the spot that I had strained a day before the tournament. I put ice on it. As I lay in bed, my mind drifted to soccer moves and my reactions to the imaginary plays. I was nervous before each and every game and I was nervous that night. I was able to calm myself down somehow, but when I woke in the morning, the nerves came back to haunt me.

I was a bundle of nerves. I couldn’t shake the nervous feelings away. After all, we made it to the final and Sharon said that was a win already. Holly said we would have a medal no matter what happened next. I found it comforting to talk to Sharon who shared my nervousness. I asked her earlier in the week if she was nervous before a game. She said “I am so bad,” and added she did not know why we would do that to ourselves.

I texted Tom, Lan, and George about being a bundle of nerves. Lan wished me good luck. I needed it.

At the field, I put on the thick ankle braces, which made putting on shoes a bit difficult. I put my left knee brace on as I did for the previous game. It felt as though I wore too many things because my feet didn’t feel quite comfortable in the shoes, but I shook the uncomfortable feelings away. It was too late to make any adjustments. The game was about to start.

It was decided that the game would be a 70-minute game with a running-clock for water breaks. Both teams felt that would be better than playing a 90-minute game in the Tennessee summer heat.  

I was surprised and not too relieved when I learned we would have the 3-4-3 line-up rather than the more conservative 4-4-2 that we had against this team before. I had loved the 4-4-2 line-up and felt more confident in the defense line. But we started the game and played on. As in previous games, once the game started, I was immersed in it and the nervousness went away. We needed the focus and concentration that nerves had no place for. I thought I sensed in the beginning that the other team was tired, but I was surprised me to observe they were strong in their offense. The big and strong opponent (called “Navy SEAL” by Sara) whom I had shut out the previous game was able to make several runs down the flank. She eventually made a goal when I exchanged places with Hannah and we failed to contain her. The Navy SEAL was very nice. She always complimented us for a good play.

We scored in the second half (a goal made by Holly – my team said it was from a corner kick, but for some reason, I thought it was from a free kick) and the game stayed tied 1-1 until the whistle blew. I thought the shoot-out would occur then and my part was over, but two 5-minute overtime halves were added. Our coach had a strategy that almost worked. We dominated and kept the ball on the opponents’ side of the field. I could feel the other team was getting tired, including their goalie. We were energized, but the 5-minute halves were short and did not give us enough time to do damages. Gayle took me out before the last 5-minute half ended to prepare for the shoot-out. I didn’t know that only the players on the field get to shoot. Had I stayed, I probably wouldn’t be needed because after five shots on goal for each team, we got 4 goals versus 3 for the opponents. We had won!!!

It was exhilarating. I felt almost certain we would win. I imagined we wanted to win more.

My teacher who came to watch me play in Escondido watched me from heaven.

Sara told me the defense was called “the dome” by teammates.

I am honored to be a part of the NOVA WFC team.

The bundle of nerves had been long gone.

And we brought home the gold!

I love women’s soccer.

The game.

Thursday, June 23, 2022

Rainbows of the Moment

Inspired by the eight rainbows we saw during our week in Aiea

The rainbow of the moment
Brightens up my day
It is my symbol of hope
Bringing me a joy not easy to describe
It may go away for a while
But always it reappears
To put a smile on my face
And make me feel alive
Whether it’s sunny or I’m under clouds
Whether the rainbow looks bright or faint
It comforts me when I’m down
It lifts me up and cheers me on
I can always count
On the rainbows of the moment
To be there for me
For the sun always shines after the rain
I shall forever treasure
The rainbows of my life


Sunday, May 15, 2022

Little Rainbows

The little rainbows softly came
Through a dreamy night
Where colors were dancing
In harmonious delight
I blew small kisses
Feeling happy and gay
Big dreams were coming
I was sure they would be fine
I didn’t know the heartbreak
Could come after a rainbow
The rainbow colors didn’t fade
Where did the rainbows hide?
I shed the tears to cry
When the rainbows said goodbye
But I know deep in my heart
Rainbows will never die

Monday, April 18, 2022

Collage 60

April marks the beginning
Of our new journey together
A new phase of life
Welcomes us as one
I am as excited
As you probably are
How lucky we are
To have one another
We are embraced
In a circle of love
I marvel
At my blessings
I shall stop
And smell the roses


Saturday, April 2, 2022

Springtime Goodbye

I left you in the springtime
When pear trees with blossoms white
Enhanced the beauty of McLearen Rd
‘Round the corner of my old home
I will surely miss you
In you I hold memories
Of events recent and distant past
Of children growing
Through the four seasons of each year
Through the milestones of their lives
I now mark a milestone of mine
Embarking on a new chapter of life
Springtime is when I’ll remember you
Along with winter, summer, and fall